If you are a big man you have heard your training partners say “you beat me because of your weight”. You would like to hear that you out grappled your opponent or that your strategy was unique and precise and this lead to the submission. What you hear is that your size was the determining factor the victory.
Some technical big men are Roger Gracie, Jeff Monson and Big Mac.
This is a message to all non super-size grapplers (jiu jitsu players): Some big men can be “technical” and beat you without putting the weight down. Respect this!